50 Breakup Quotes to Help Heal a Broken Heart

By Billie •  Updated: 09/13/24 •  6 min read

Breakups are some of the most difficult moments in life, but they can also be transformative experiences.

Whether you’re reeling from the shock or embracing the opportunity to start anew, the right words can help you heal and gain perspective.

Here are some breakup quotes to remind you that you’re never alone in your journey of letting go and moving forward.


  1. “You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them—but still move on without them.” – Mandy Hale
  2. “It hurts to let go, but sometimes it hurts more to hold on.” – Unknown
  3. “If someone makes you miserable more than they make you happy, it doesn’t matter how much you love them—you need to let them go.” – Unknown
  4. “You don’t lose by letting go; you lose by holding onto something that’s already gone.” – Unknown
  5. “The hardest part of breaking up isn’t the actual parting; it’s having to learn to live without the future you thought you had together.” – Unknown
  6. “Your heart can still ache even after you’ve moved on.” – Unknown
  7. “It’s better to be single with high standards than in a relationship that lowers them.” – Unknown
  8. “Sometimes, it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.” – Mandy Hale
  9. “Don’t let yesterday take up too much of today.” – Will Rogers
  10. “Just because the relationship ended doesn’t mean the love did. But love alone isn’t enough to make it work.” – Unknown
  11. “Don’t cling to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it.” – Unknown
  12. “Grieve, let go, and move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.” – Steve Maraboli
  13. “It’s amazing how quickly someone can become a stranger.” – Unknown
  14. “You don’t walk out of a breakup the same person who walked in. Heartache teaches you, but it also frees you.” – Unknown
  15. “It takes bravery to walk away from what doesn’t serve you, even when you still care.” – Unknown
  16. “Sometimes, the person you want most is the person you’re best without.” – Unknown
  17. “You are strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.” – Unknown
  18. “Letting go doesn’t mean you stopped loving someone. It means you’ve learned to love yourself enough to leave.” – Unknown
  19. “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll be spending the rest of your life with.” – Unknown
  20. “One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it’s guilt, anger, love, or loss. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.” – Unknown
  21. “You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy.” – C. JoyBell C.
  22. “What’s broken is broken—and I’d rather remember it as it was than fix it and see the broken places as long as I live.” – Margaret Mitchell
  23. “You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.” – Unknown
  24. “There’s an important difference between giving up and letting go.” – Unknown
  25. “Take a deep breath, let it go, and remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.” – Oprah Winfrey
  26. “You don’t always need closure. Sometimes, you just need to move on.” – Unknown
  27. “Pain makes you stronger, fear makes you braver, and heartbreak makes you wiser.” – Unknown
  28. “Someday, you’ll look back and understand why it all had to happen.” – Unknown
  29. “Don’t waste your time looking back on what you’ve lost. Move on, for life is not meant to be traveled backward.” – Unknown
  30. “A breakup is like a mirror being shattered. It’s better to leave it broken than to hurt yourself trying to pick up the pieces.” – Unknown
  31. “When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you.” – T.D. Jakes
  32. “You’ll never know how strong you are until being strong is your only choice.” – Bob Marley
  33. “A breakup is not the end of you. It’s the beginning of a better version of yourself.” – Unknown
  34. “You deserve someone who is utterly obsessed with you, not someone who’s still trying to figure out if they want you or not.” – Unknown
  35. “If someone can’t see your worth, it’s time for you to see it yourself.” – Unknown
  36. “You cannot heal in the same environment where you got sick.” – Unknown
  37. “The longer you dance with the devil, the longer you stay in hell.” – Unknown
  38. “Sometimes the person you want the most is the person you’re best without.” – Unknown
  39. “The only way to make peace with a broken heart is to accept that it’s time to love yourself more than anyone else.” – Unknown
  40. “In the process of letting go, you will lose many things from the past, but you will find yourself.” – Deepak Chopra
  41. “Don’t be afraid of losing someone who doesn’t feel lucky to have you.” – Unknown
  42. “You’ll miss the person you were before them, but you’ll love the person you become after them.” – Unknown
  43. “Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than hurt yourself trying to put them back together.” – Unknown
  44. “Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.” – Unknown
  45. “A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s His way of saying, ‘I saved you from the wrong one.’” – Unknown
  46. “One day, someone will walk into your life and make you see why it never worked out with anyone else.” – Unknown
  47. “You deserve a love that doesn’t make you question your worth.” – Unknown
  48. “Heartbreak is just the growing pains necessary so that you can love more completely when the real thing comes along.” – Unknown
  49. “Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are part of your history, but not part of your destiny.” – Steve Maraboli
  50. “The greatest lesson I’ve learned is that nothing is permanent, and the sooner we embrace change, the easier it is to move forward.” – Unknown

These quotes are here to remind you that while love can leave you scarred, it can also lead you to incredible growth. As painful as the process may be, breakups open the door to new beginnings, fresh perspectives, and a stronger version of yourself. Take your time, heal, and remember—better days are ahead.


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Billie

I like to climb mountains, read Nietzsche, and explore the West Coast. I have a BA from York University (2003) in Toronto, Canada, and yet on this site I sometimes spell like an American (know your audience). Thank you. Thank you very much.

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